I always hear from many people that motherhood changes their lives, having a child is a blessing and starting your own family is a new chapter of your life that gives you motivation and blissfulness in life. But can you really be a parent?
It is not as easy as you think, because it takes a lot of courage to bring another human being in this world. Raising a child is not like playing a barbie doll that you just have to change clothes or styling their hair, you have to style their life too to become a better person.
You have to consider many things before deciding to be a parent. First, you have to look at your financial stability. Having a child can be very expensive, and when I say expensive, you have to give everything to your child in order to make him or her a good person. It all starts on how you would give your child a life that he deserves, a life that he is not deprived of things, a life that he will not seek to others.
And giving hin that kind of life will cost you big, because having a child is having a responsibilty that you are not able to escape.
You have to provide him a home that will make him feel safe. You have to provide good education so that it will help him to grow. You have to give him proper nourishment in order for him to survive in the outside world and mostly, you have to give him all the support and love to make him a good person.
To be a parent that your future child deserves, you have to be fully aware of your capability as a person and as the one who is strong enough to face challenges in life. You also have to live and nurture yourself first in order to give the same things to your future children, so don’t be a parent, if you can’t.
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