Being alone is not lonely

When do you feel the real peacefulness?

I feel it when I am alone, just me and my coffee. I can feel the real peace with just myself enjoying simple things around me. Maybe some people may see me as a sad person because I am alone, but for me it is calmness and peace.

You can say that I am an introvert, or maybe I am an ambivert. I enjoy time with myself but I can also be jolly with my squad. But sometimes being alone is the best relaxation for me. No loud voices, no noisy laughter. Just me and my black coffee, then I am all in calm and peace.

Sometimes being alone is like having a party with yourself, and your inner self. Being alone can also brings you happiness. You are just alone, but you are not lonely. You just enjoy accomodating yourself while listening to your music on your earphones or while simply reading your favorite book.

You can enjoy your food while being alone. It gives you time to taste every flavor and review it on your own, or you can also think that you can cook the same recipe.

It also gives you time to understand every lyrics on the music you’re listening to. Appreciating every beat and rhythm of each song.

In this world full of negativity, you can find harmony and peace all by yourself. Sometimes you have to abstain the famous line ‘no man is an island’ because you can literally feel the peace of an island with just yourself.

It’s not about having many friends around, or being in a circle of people, sometimes it just have to be you to feel serenity. You just have to remember that your alone time is also appreciating yourself more. And it also reminds us that even if we are alone, we can also be happy and not to depend on anyone to be blissful, because being alone is not lonely, you are just enjoying yourself.

Walking alone is good too

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